What is marriage? Marriage in my own definition is the union between two matured mind that have decided to live together till death do them apart, the reason for this question is that most people have missed this term marriage therefore thinking that marriage is same as family not knowing that family is different from marriage, I am surprise most times when couples allow families to come between them, how they allow families to decides for them what to do at some point of their lives which give way to this question was it your family that chose the man or woman for you if no why then do you run to your family when you have little issues?
There are issues you should resolve as couples why there are issues you involve your family, you can only involve your family in an issue that you have tried several ways to resolve but prove abortive and not just any issue, the more you take your family issue to your family the more you weaken the strength of the love that exist in your marriage because that is where the enemy of your union will discover the loophole to penetrate and such lead to the failure of many marriages before any marriage can fail there must be side talk from family members or friends.